Survey says: Sexual language can help women find satisfaction. The team then looked closer into these four techniques using a cross-sectional, online, national probability survey of 3, American women ages 18— In other words, they looked at the specific sexual moves and methods that turned them on. Angling Rotating, raising, or lowering pelvis and hips during penetration to adjust where inside the vagina the toy or penis rubs; 87 percent of respondents used this method. Pairing A woman or her partner stimulates her clitoris with a finger or sex toy simultaneously with penetration. Usually used when the woman is on top. And we're both much happier with our new ways. I can have really amazing sex with penetration just going in an inch and never further.